5 Ways to Provide the Right Kind of Love and Care to an Autistic Child

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If you’ve recently discovered your child has autism, it’s tough to prepare yourself for what’s to come. The news can be overwhelming, and trying to connect with your child is often emotionally stressful. But providing the proper love and care for your autistic child doesn’t have to be a burden. Read on to learn five techniques for giving your child the right kind of love and care.

Start Treatment Immediately

One of the best things you can do for your child is to start treatment right away. According to HelpGuide.org, “Early intervention is the most effective way to speed up your child’s development and reduce the symptoms of autism.”

The word “treatment” can be confusing in terms of autism since treatment for children on the autism spectrum doesn’t mean they will grow out of their autistic tendencies. When it comes to autism, treatment may instead refer to various learning techniques that are different from the normal education system.

Since autistic children learn differently, you don’t want to delay their education by waiting for an official diagnosis or seeing if they’ll catch up to other children later. Evidence suggests that the first few years of life are crucial to your child’s brain development. Find out what you can do now to help put your child on a path to a successful education.

Learn Your Child’s Behaviors

Taking care of an autistic child is sometimes frustrating, but the more time you spend with him or her, the better you’ll understand what triggers your child’s behaviors. You’ll learn what your child likes to do, what upsets him, what stresses him out, etc. The more you know about your child, the better you can provide an ideal environment for him. If there’s too much to remember about your child’s behavior, keep a journal detailing what sets him off and what elicits a positive response so you can identify patterns.

Track Your Child’s Special Education

With autistic children, it’s often difficult to pinpoint what they’ve learned and what they’re capable of since they process information differently and have a hard time communicating with others. Knowing and understanding your child becomes easier as you work with your child’s school and his therapists to track his special education.

By doing this, you not only show your support for his education, but you can get a better idea of how to properly treat your child based on his views about the world. With programs like ABPathfinder, you and your child’s school can create goals together, collaborate on learning modules, and closely and easily track your child’s progress.

Practice Acceptance

Instead of focusing on how your child is different from other children, show that you love him just the way he is. While your child may have trouble communicating with you and showing his or her feelings, autistic children still understand love. If you don’t accept his condition, it may be harder for him to comprehend that you love him given that it’s a part of who he is. Do you need help understanding your child? Then read this touching article on ten things every child with autism wishes you knew.

Provide Structure

Autistic children generally work best in a structured environment. Help create an ideal learning environment for your child by setting a schedule and being consistent with your rewards and punishments. Without structure in their lives, it can be tough for autistic children to apply what they’ve learned in one setting to an entirely new environment. If there are any changes to your schedule, make sure to prepare your child ahead of time.

At first, looking after an autistic child can be confusing and tough for parents since you have to change your schedule and ideas about learning to accommodate him or her. However, it doesn’t have to become a bloody battle. By providing the proper love and care for your autistic child, you can help him learn and grow to his full potential, and you can understand his condition better. Start by focusing on these five tips, and then read more about tips for parenting a child with autism.

Author Bio:  Alicia Rades is a freelance writer and blogger. Learn more about her at aliciaradeswriter.com.

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Cyndee is a mom of 3, one with Autism as his Super Power, trying to make her way through college and life with MS and without getting multiple restraining orders...Living in Mt. Airy, N.C and married to her best friend and side-kick Jack, aka Not-So-Rude-Dad.....Welcome to our craziness.
  • Shannon

    I agree with everything here, Cyndee. Thank you for sharing :)

  • Stephanie Shipley

    My son is on the Autism spectrum and I agree with everything you wrote. Providing structure and transitional cues are especially important so they know what to expect and can prepare for what happens next.

  • Candy Kelley

    Great suggestions it helps. Thank you for the great ideas

  • Zooey Glass

    Great suggestions. I am training to be an SLP and we get to work with children with autism. It is great to help bring awareness and acceptance to individuals with ASD.

  • Eg Kaufman

    These are great! I have 2 nephews that are Autistic, so I am always looking for well written advice to send to my sisters!